>>6553
well... it's not like i can just give you a cheat code on how to get a girlfriend. women are complex just like men are, so they look for different things. my personal experience may not work for you guys but i can try to give advice. step one for me was getting my own life in order. got a job, got a car, my own place, started working out, put effort into my hygiene and appearance, generally just being more responsible and functional. next i'd say to remember that you'll struggle to find a gf if you don't ever talk to women. cold-calling and dating apps i find are really shit unless you're a 9/10 norman, but putting yourself in environments where you'll see the same women is best i think. this can be your job, school/college, clubs, extracurricular classes, etc. somewhere you'll be able to consistently interact with women on casual terms in order to build rapport with them. from there i guess it's a matter of finding someone you hit it off with? relationships- including friendships- can't be forced so try not to come off as desperate and test the waters until you naturally hit it off with someone. i've noticed that women tend to be entranced by people they find fun or entertaining. y'know the stereotype about fat ugly guys getting hot gfs because they're funny? that's not entirely untrue. so even if you lack self-confidence, remember that you don't need to be a 10/10 lookmaxxing Classical marble statue with an 8in pp and 500k in the bank to find someone who loves you for who you are.
my current gf is someone i've been friends with for a long time so i can't give you much there but i've gotten previous relationships and friendships with the mindset above. honestly relationships are complicated so much of this comes down to your own introspection from your own personal experience. good luck hikarin!
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